Re: In a slump
Your case seems rather serious. Your aunt's death seems to have triggered something in you, probably a sense of closeness. Did you speak to the therapist about how you are struggling to get to terms with having her as a councellor? This is useful because she can possibly change her style. Anyway have another go if you can.
About your boyfriend, it seems like he has no idea about the subject, not everybody gets it and thus discard depression as a genuine illness. Perhaps explaining to him what depression is about will help him understand what you are going through.
Let us know more. Thanks