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Originally posted by SamQKitty:
I'm curious as to why your father is so much against doctors? Has he had a bad experience in the past? |
For all my 26 years my father has never went to a doctor. He's 60yrs old and originally from the south, & in his family people would suffer rather than go to a dr. & I guess being around that mentality for so long and being a man has instilled this in him.
To him he saw the people in his famiy living long lives & even though some had suffered through conditions, but being able to survive w/o going to doctors. So in his warped mind he saw people who went to doctors usually got worse.
It's frustrating for me & my mom, but you can't force someone set in his ways
It's so bad that a few years ago, on his neck area a big "knot" appeared lasted for a couple of weeks, my mom said he should go get a biopsy & he refused, and self medicated it with who knows - eventually it went away, but I'm sure its not good