DeeDee, I can sympathize with you, even though I'm not having as much trouble as you are with the health part, I can feel for you in the doc's part. For me, everytime I get somebody decent, they leave. This spring I had to have a pysical exam.
to refill my thyroid persciption.(had cancer of the thyroid, Graves Disease in 89'. And my PA (phsysians Assitant)that I was seeing, went to Urgent Care only! So I made an appt. with another female dr., I found out some stuff because I wanted those test done! Needless to say those test never would of been run if I hadn't pushed for the testing! For my own piece of mind! Then she wanted to mess around with my thyroid meds. and I told her that in my med. history chart, (that she had) the internist I was seeing(who moved also!)could never lower my dosage without it going to low! Oh, she said, do what ever you think is best then. AND I DID!! I know that because I am over Med. on synthroid that I'm prone to other problems and need to make sure that those are taken care of. Sorry I'm so so off topic but, hey this is a health board of, a lot of people who aren't getting good results elsewhere, Right?
Now for on topic

!!!! lol. My Mother who lived with me and my husband for 3 yrs up untill last Oct.(we found her a real nice place that's affordable)had severe diabetes when she moved in. Many times in the morn. when I would get ready for work. And she would come out of her room to start her day. And we would be chatting away then I'd look at her and say are you OK?!! Her blood sugar had dropped to below 40, it wasn't reading anything on her machine,and I could tell right away!! To make a very hectic story shorter. They found she had a slow growing tumor on her adrenial(sp?)gland she had been pretty sick to her stomach for over a year. At least if she complained to her doctor he kept digging for answers for her. By the time they took out the tumor I was the largest one the doctor had seen and the gland was triple it's normal size. Terribly sensitive and painful surgery to undergo, we almost lost her twice. But after the surgery her blood sugars have leveled out! Does take glua(something) but no more insulin shots. She was taking alot of insulin per day, pior to the surgery. Now she still gets stomach aches, not as bad as before, but won't try anything except pain meds and ex-rolaids. She isn't doing the right things at all. But she's stubborn. Anyway, what I'm getting at would be if you could try and go the route of making sure your adrenal gland if functioning at an A1 compacity? It kind of makes sense in a way. Do you ever find your self easily startled, I know my mom was as jumpy as all get out. Another issue I wanted to comment on was that my Mothers whole family (8kids)has diabetes. So her kids are prone to getting it too. I'm 41 and after the stressful time of getting everything ready for Mom to move, and then it was and extremly busy time for me after that, plus with the holidays I was cooking and eating alot of fatty, sugary, foods. So my spring physcial show all the signs of becoming insulin resistant. Here's what I did, I went on the 'carbohydrates addict', diet. Took the red yeast rice, My cholesterol was 329, I weighed at the time 127 and I'm 5'3" tall. (But all my weight had gone to my gut. Talk about distended! Plus I had had a total hysterectomy when I was 36, so I finally feel better hormonally with a natural combination of hormone creams I am now taking.)
Then I went on the 'watercure' diet
do a search or you can go to the allergy board for some info, under jackpot's last posting. Now I weigh a consistant 117 to 115. Belly gone. (I'm a mother of two by the way) My cholesterol went from 329 to 192 in 2 1/2 months. And my blood pressure came down! It was very high for me, but not to the regular standards. The average reading for me was 90/60, when it went up it was, 135/90, now it is,110/70. Talk about a gabby post.

Hope you feel better.
Like I said I can sympathize. Diana