bohrsonc,
My personal feeling is that continuing to eat the way you're eating now, and making sure that you keep physically active, is going to ensure that you live a long and healthy life.
In regards to the calorie restriction issue, here are some of my thoughts:
First, scientists are publishing results from their experiments all the time. Some of those results make it look like it would make sense to adopt a new wonder pill or procedure or lifestyle right now. But keep in mind that scientists are setting up experiments in such a way as to break things down into manageable sizes so that they can (1) isolate just the components that they want to compare with other components, and (2) see the results in their lifetimes or before the grant money runs out. Thus, if they want to find out if calorie restriction affects the lifespan of humans, they can't just kidnap some babies and isolate them, giving group A very few calories per day, group B a bit more calories per day, group C a middle amount of calories per day, and a control group all the calories per day that they feel they need to satisfy their hunger. This would be unethical, and would require islolating these people for far longer than these original scientists, who thought up the experiment, would themselves survive. So, it makes sense to try it out on mice, who live only a short time. But time after time, it has become apparent that what is appropriate for mice
may or may not apply to humans. This takes a long time, with other scientists looking over the data and setting up new experiments and looking at health statistics from other studies and so on, to see if something can
perhaps be applied to humans.
Second, may I point out that there are advantages and disadvantages to everything, including any particular diet that anyone chooses to follow. Let us assume, for the sake of this discussion, that what apples to mice also applies to humans -- that cutting calories severely (while making sure to get lots of veggies and vitamins and fiber and protein and so on, of course) will allow us to live a decade or so longer than the current average lifespan with a decrease in the chance that we will get the usual diseases of western civilization. The advantage here is clear -- we have a longer time to indulge in our hobbies and give something back to the world and so on. But one of the disadvantages that immediately leaps to my mind is that we would be constantly hungry. When we are hungry we think of food. But we're not allowed to eat more than a pre-set amount, because we are on this grand experiment to extend our lives. Constantly hungry. Constantly thinking of food. For the rest of our lives. Every day. All day. Lest you think that I'm exaggerating, I've read articles from people who have put themselves on such a calorie-deficit diet. They are physically healthy. But hungry. And constantly thinking of food. Is this how you want to spend the next several decades of your life?
And these people who have read the same scientific studies that you have, and who have decided to follow such a diet, are still alive. They haven't been doing this for very long. Thus there is no proof that the deprivation that they have set for themselves will pay off in the long term with extra years of a healthy lifespan. They are setting themselves up as lab mice, for the rest of the world to observe. It'll take a few more generations to see if what applies to mice also applies to humans.
In the meantime, the sort of diet that you are describing as your current diet to confound your friends

, plus regular exercise (!!!), has already been shown to increase lifespans and lower the chances of getting the diseases that plague the western world.
We have the opportunities to make our own choices in life. Perhaps you can guess which choice I've made in regards to this topic.
--Rheanna