| my disability doctors appt was cancelled???
I applied for disability about 2 months ago, and I know that all my doctors have sent in their info, which is great. My person at the disability office seemed quite impressed that all of them were sending them. A couple of weeks ago I got a letter in the mail saying that they had made a doctors appt for me to meet with a doctor, so he could examine me, and get more information for them to make a decision about approving or not approving me for disability. I was nervous, and I called her and asked her about the appt., she said it was no big deal, no reason to be nervous, and to call her the day after to talk about how it went. I felt better after talking to her.
Friday I got a letter in the mail saying that the appt with the doctor has been cancelled, and they no longer need the additional information to make their decision. What does that mean? Is that good for me? I hope that someone has had a similiar situation and can tell me what it means.
I am awful nervous now, and I called a couple of times on Friday but my person was not there, so I will call tomorrow. The letter said that they no longer needed the additional information, and I am feeling that a decision might have been made, and it is one way or another, yes or no.
I know we all need money, when we get sick, and can no longer work, and pray for it to come through and sometimes wait a couple of years, but my husband has not talked to me in weeks, and wants nothing to do with me, won't even let me touch his arm or give his a kiss, he is so stressed about money, and our financial issue, if i get disability I will be so blessed, and hopefully my marriage will get better, and I will do something right. Stress is a horrible thing, not only has it made me sicker, but it is hurting my marriage. I was always afraid of if I got ill, or had something that made me not feel good, sometimes bed bound, who would take care of me. The answer is me, and my 2 and 5 year old. My husband works, and he works hard, he takes care of us as far as financially, but right now we are in a financial mess, and I think it is taken out on my sometimes.
So there is my quick story, and I blabbed a little, but I need to get somethings out. I was hoping that someone has had this happen to them with disability, and what was the outcome? Any help would be great and so appreciative.
Thank you
Kass
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