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Old 06-17-2003, 04:39 PM   #1
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Exclamation 2 miscarriages + possible divorce in 1 year! HELP!

Someone help me!
I just don't know what to do anymore. Here's the deal. I relocated from all of my family to move with my husband to another state when we got married. A few years later....I had 2 miscarriages in a row (within 4 months of each other----and I have NO kids of my own yet). Now....a few months later...my husband can not decide whether he wants to stay married to me anymore. He says we are too different for eachother. He can't make up his mind!!! I don't know what to do. I have NEVER been a depressed person...but after all this my family doctor advised I start taking Lexapro. Any thoughts? I am afraid to take any 'drugs!' My job envolves inducing and monitoring anesthesia all day and I don't want to loose any concentration!! with meds. Does anyone have an opinion? Thanks!!

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Old 06-18-2003, 08:34 AM   #2
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Wow, it seems like you have been through a lot! Having 2 miscarriages sucks, but hang in there. I know someone who has had many more, and got pregnant and gave birth to a baby girl after 15 years of trying. As for your husband, if he's thinking about leaving you, that's his loss, not yours! I have been depressed on and off for the past 4 years, and my fiancee has no doubts about marrying me. We are getting married in less than 2 weeks. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, but maybe this guy's not the one for you. Maybe it's a good thing you did not have children together. ?As for the medication, if you think you can deal with things without it, power to you! It's normal to feel depressed after everything you have been through. Hang in there, if you can't you could try taking something until you get on your feet again. Good luck!

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