Re: help-heading for divorce
There is another simpler book which you can you for a quick fix about your problems with communication.
"WHy MEn don't have a clue and why Women always need more shoes", by Marbara and Allan Pease.
GO GRAB GET THIS BOOK!
Here's what can help you for the time being
We guys normally mean what we say....i.e we use direct words
But women often use indirect speech, specially betw themselves, and they forget that man are not women, so when you are saying something, she tends to hear sthg else.
Tell her about that too.
WOmen deal with stress by talking about it, withouht requiring you to input solutions, where as Man prefer to be alone and think about it. Let her know that as well, as if you are not talking to her, she might immediately assume taht you are angry at her.
IN anycase, you wil HAVE to get "Men are from Mars Women Venus " in the end. Go read it, AND BOTH OF YOU
Last edited by glerio; 11-23-2006 at 07:35 PM.