Re: Death and Divorce
I am very sorry for what you're going through.
I think now is the time for your friends and family to step up and really be there for you, as well as for eachother. I think the worst thing you could do would be to shut everyone out, even though that is often the only thing we want to do when we're in pain. If you alienate yourself, you'll dwell in the pain and that only prolongs the healing process.
If you're open to it, there are lots of support groups out there, not just online, but personal support groups; at churches or hospitals sometimes have anonymous support groups.
I also find that keeping a journal helps me. It allows me to realease any negative thoughts I have, so I don't harbor them.
As difficult as it may be to find motivation, try to fill your day with things you enjoy doing, spending as much time as possible with your children, friends and family.
Take care of yourself