Originally Posted by fran1961
Any advice on ways to cope with the infidelity or suggestions on ways to progress with our marriage in the next 5 months? Also any ideas to help restore the spark between a couple?
Thanks for reading.
a) doing things together for fun (physical activities, working out, walking, playing games, dancing, etc);
b) doing household chores together - every day;
c) socializing together (going to parties, ceremonies, political meetings, all kinds of celebrations, etc);
d) touching each other (massaging, holding hands, etc - it doesn't have to be something overtly sexual);
e) finding new interests for each of you AND for the couple;
f) being courteous, kind, and polite to each other (saying thank you, apologizing, etc frequently), and avoiding complaining and criticizing;
g) creating routines, but allowing for some flexibility, too;
h) keeping healthy, fit and in good appearance;
and last but not least
i) keeping your own privacy and having time and space for yourself, too.
Hope this helps you.