Re: Divorce Cold Feet...
Tough call. On the one hand, I can see why you would want to try to salvage your marriage. But on the other hand, you guys have cheated on each other. I don't know about you, but for me, cheating is grounds for immediate and total breakoff of the relationship. I just won't put up with it. You said she did it twice. And the problem with trying again means that you're always going to wonder if she'll do it again. If you think you can handle it and move forward, then I guess you have your answer. But if you have no trust, you have no relationship.
And if she is serious about wanting to get together again, she needs to get out of that relationship with that guy. I don't know about you, but if someone was telling me they wanted to be with me again, then I would expect them to NOT be living with another person already? Do you see where I'm going?