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Old 08-30-2010, 10:39 AM   #16
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Re: He divorced 3 wives, i am the 4th and need advice

Find someone with less baggage. This guy does not have a good track record. I'm pretty sure you don't want to be ex wife # 4 with some kids that he sends money to.

 
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Re: He divorced 3 wives, i am the 4th and need advice

Never marry a man that has that many x wives....... he is an x for a reason. Or atleast talk to his X to find out why.

 
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Old 06-06-2011, 12:13 AM   #18
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Re: He divorced 3 wives, i am the 4th and need advice

The fact that he lied about whether they were over would have me OUT.

I married a man under similar circumstances and it just got worse and worse. (I found out about the lie after the marriage. And he had only had one wife, which was normal for his age.)

Get away now. Or AT THE VERY LEAST, I beg you, get an IUD and don't have children for a long time. Do not make a baby with this man.

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Old 06-06-2011, 12:20 AM   #19
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but this one is weird, very untidy, does totally nothing in the house even just taking a plate to the kitchen is a big deal, but outside he is the strongest, handsome and admired by many.
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You know... the description you just gave really strikes a chord with me. I've known a couple sociopaths in my life (not my ex) and the whole "I need you to do everything for me but I want people to believe I'm the most competent person they've ever met" attitude is to me a HUGE RED FLAG.

Seriously. Get away from this guy.

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