Re: long marriage ending
I always try to make it a rule not to act on emotions only. At two weeks, you are still obviously upset, and big decisions require thinking lucidly. Talk this out with a friend you can trust. A professional counselor would be better. Even keep posting here. Think in your mind what will be the consequences of your actions either way in 6 months, a year, or even 5 years- housing, finances, custody, etc. You don't say if children are involved. Would a trial separation be something that would allow you to think more clearly? Then, when your emotions have died down, you can decide one way or the other. I'm sure you didn't decide to marry your wife in just two weeks. Allow the same consideration for the dissolution.