Re: My husband wants a divorce after 25 years together
Wow! I feel like I'm reading my own story except for the restaurant and the ages of the boys. I wish I had an answer as I am in the middle of the same dilemma. I try to back up my husband, but don't always agree with the degree he takes things. I also feel like he's so quick to say "No" without having a specific reason why they can't do something. But, my oldest son just got caught with marijuana and now I'm left to feel pretty distressed as I don't know whether I am solely to blame (which he is saying) or whether it could have been prevented. We've cautioned him about the people he hangs out with and what he should and shouldn't be doing, but at 20, I think he has to be allowed some leeway to show his maturity or lack thereof - obviously LACKING!!! But my husband has used the same words "I'm Done" and "I want a divorce".
Wish I knew some advice to give, but I guess I'm anxiously waiting to see if anybody else has anything to share.