tinymom05

Hi everyone. I have been married 10 yrs and seperated 2 years. I have mild Autism. My soon to be ex husband has been a computer addict from day one and i stood by his side cause he said he would kill himself if i left and sung songs to me saying that i was the best thing he ever found and cried and told me to ever let him go. He then started to be pre-occupied with video games all the time when we went to dinner which was rare he would have handheld video games. I ended up marrying the jerk and had 2 kids with Autism with him. He continued to ignore me never came to bed and would always be on the computer and ignored his kids. I know it is difficult when you have special needs kids but he has been like this since we were dating. I know i am dumb for staying with him but i was young and thought i knew what i wanted plus i didn't know what he would do if i left him. I talked to him tried everything even played games with him when i was pregnant and when i would tell him i couldnt put up with his addiction he would fall asleep while i was crying. I put up with it long enough and seperated from him and he would send me txts all the time and getting upset about how things ended up cause he was single. Now he has a girlfriend and he wont talk to me at all even if it is an emergency when he is with her. He basically moved in with her after knowing her a few days, and first she said she has a bf then was single the next day, then he cried and sang to her and the next day she said she wants him as a bf. She tells him he needs to find a place and go see his kids and mom and he gets depressed, then later she is madly in love with him and he stays at her house. First he said he wanted to visit the kids everyday and spend time with them but he never wants to see them. I found a great guy who is more of a father then he is which i am blessed to have. How could someone just want nothing to do with their kids? He is always right he defends himself and acts fake when anyone says he is doing anything wrong to get everyone on his side. I am have been through alot with this guy and i can"t take anymore, my poor kids i feel bad for the most.