So sad and confused
My husband announced a little over a week ago that he is "done trying" and wants to separate. We've had our issues but have only been married for 4 years and have only been in therapy together about 6 months. He was diagnosed with ADD about that time, too. We also have a 1 and 3 year old, and I am just so sad for them.
I don't know why my husband is doing this. I told him many times I think we should keep trying, but he says no. To my mind, there has been no deal breaker event (that I know of) - no cheating, no addiction, etc. I just don't understand how he could do this to our babies.
I am so sad. I'm trying to be strong for the kids (I was a stay at home mom so I am with them all the time as I look for a job). Their entire world is going to be flipped - dad gone, starting daycare, mom sad. They don't deserve this.
I am also worried for my husband, as he seems to have changed drastically and won't talk to me at all.
I just wish I understood.