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Old 02-06-2013, 02:24 AM   #1
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Need some help and advice!!

I need some much needed advice and help.

I have been with my husband 6 years now and married for 2 years.

I no longer love my husband and cannot stand to be around him, I hate it when he touches me or kisses me.
We have two kids together aged 6 and 3. However I must confess I have cheated on him since we have been married. He did in fact find out about this in September when we were on holiday.
He makes me soo unhappy and I don't want this to have any effect on the kids.
He constantly shouts at them, is lazy around the house (doesn't do any housework at all if he can help it) We both work full time and just over half of my wages goes into his bank account to pay the mortgage.

Is there any way that a Health Visitor (because my children are so young) can help me move out??
I cannot afford to put money aside as he has the majority of my wages and what little money I have goes on bills etc.

I feel really miserable and low. Some days I feel as though I cannot go on and get very upset just when I think about it.

If anybody could give me any advice or help I would be very grateful.

 
Old 02-15-2013, 10:25 AM   #2
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Re: Need some help and advice!!

What is a Health Visitor?.........

 
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Old 02-15-2013, 10:42 AM   #3
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Re: Need some help and advice!!

OK. I researched Health Visitor, it is a British thing. A health Visitor is part of child protection services which leads me to think that she could arrange things if the children were in imminent danger from your husband but if not you could certainly ask for advice.

 
Old 03-10-2013, 07:53 PM   #4
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Re: Need some help and advice!!

I swear, I am in the same position as you, minus the kids part. Wife and I have been together 4 years, married 3. Now, there is nothing there from my end. Her extreme stubbornness, hypocrisy, irrationality and short temper, combined with her lack of financial irresponsibility has made me want out, but all my money goes to our mortgage and taxes for a house she yelled and cried to have, that was too over our budget. now we get by, but have no money for anything else. I want out, I can't stand thinking my life is going to be like this until I die. I used to be so happy being single....

 
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