Kitty15

I need some much needed advice and help.

I have been with my husband 6 years now and married for 2 years.

I no longer love my husband and cannot stand to be around him, I hate it when he touches me or kisses me.
We have two kids together aged 6 and 3. However I must confess I have cheated on him since we have been married. He did in fact find out about this in September when we were on holiday.
He makes me soo unhappy and I don't want this to have any effect on the kids.
He constantly shouts at them, is lazy around the house (doesn't do any housework at all if he can help it) We both work full time and just over half of my wages goes into his bank account to pay the mortgage.

Is there any way that a Health Visitor (because my children are so young) can help me move out??
I cannot afford to put money aside as he has the majority of my wages and what little money I have goes on bills etc.

I feel really miserable and low. Some days I feel as though I cannot go on and get very upset just when I think about it.

If anybody could give me any advice or help I would be very grateful.