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Old 05-19-2013, 09:57 PM   #1
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Stop and listen please? How do i do this!

so my wife and i after 10 years have separated. I had to wait on my apt. to be ready which took about 2 months. IN the last couple of weeks before we officially separated I realized this was a huge mistake and for better or for worse this was my family and i needed to fix it. we've been through so much including a deployment to Iraq. In that time frame we decided to separate she found someone else and now and that person is sleeping in my bed next to her at night, which i just found out. I want nothing more than to have my family back together again and this other person, who has 2 felonies to his name, gone. One for drugs and the other for domestic violence and my WIFE wants someone like that to be around our 2 boys both 5 and 10. I have said everything under the son to try sand get her back but this new person is " a nice guy", my ***!!
How do i fix this and bring her back in ? cmon america. Help me fix this please!!

 
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Re: Stop and listen please? How do i do this!

You can't fix it unless your wife wants to fix it as well. If she doesn't, you have no hope. Anything negative or enraged you do may limit or lose you access to the kids (right or wrong, mother gets favoured all the time over the dad). You will go through a lot of emotions over this. Get counselling in a men's group or a counsellor specialising in men's issues. Sera

 
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