I had my tonsils out last summer...like you, I was miserable. Apparently the pain depends on how well connected those little buggers are! The surgeon who took mine out commented that they were connected way down my throat and he apparently went down as far as he felt was safe. Two weeks after, the pain was still considerable.
I was also one of those rare cases to suffer the dreaded complications...at exactly two weeks, I was feeling absolutely terrible, coughed once or twice and opened up the sites...bled like a stuck pig!

Once they fixed me back up, it was only a matter of about two weeks before I was feeling much better.
Stick with the soft foods and if it is painful, don't hesitate to get your doctor to give you something for the pain!
MBN