I am on day 15 post-op and I didn't feel like living until after day 10.

I found this board to be extremely helpful. I found that mkgbrooks is extremely knowledgeable and if you have any questions the board can't answer, ask her. Without her comments I don't think I would have made it.
Some things that helped me cope:
1. ice pack to my neck whenever the pain was extreme and I couldn't take my medicine yet.
2. a chart of when I can take my medicine
3. The lollipops were a miracle in between medicine times. Be very careful with the pops you can only have it in your mouth up to 1 minute. Read the instructions. You will need a RX for them.
4. You might need to sleep sitting up because your uvula will swell and make you snore quite loudly, and you will feel more rested.
5. The most important thing is to drink water all the time and to REST.
6. Read and send a copy of the LisaMP's Adult Guide to a Tonsillectomy, it is very helpful.
Good luck, it will be over soon.