Hey~ I sympathize with you. Sugar is in everything these days, and we develop a taste (and addiction) for it. Your husband is addicted. I was addicted from a very early age. My mother, sweet as she is, was very young, never finished high school when she had me. She grew up with obesity in the family (not her somehow), and alcoholism, which is related to sugar addiction. Anyway she didn't know, and allowed me and my brother to eat candy and cookies. Not much, but a fair amount "for a treat". I started sneaking it, and would buy those great big super size Hershey bars after school, and eat the whole thing while I did homework. This went on to whole bags of donuts, whole boxes of Little Debbies, etc. Boy, have I paid the price over the years. Your husband is on the road to some major breakdowns, and must be made to see what he is doing to his boy. Get armed with all the nutritional info you can. Sugar addiction causes cancer, emotional disorders, depression, ADD, hypertension, low blood sugar,suppressed immune system, among other things, and ultimately death if allowed to go to far. So in effect he is practicing child abuse, as he is endangering your son's very life. I apologize for sounding harsh, but I really want your son to be happy and healthy, and not an addlepated sick person. Good luck.