please help me! - Eating Disorder Recovery Message Board

Milissa2005 · 04-26-2003, 06:50 PM

i am so sick of the way i look!!!! everyone tells me that im skinny but when i look in the mirror alls i see is a stomach with many fat roles...HUGE thighs and i big butt....i really dont want to turn to makeing myself through up all the time but if thats what i have to do to be skinny then ill do it..but i know its not healthy...my parents would kill me if i went on a diet cuz they say im fine.....so can some one PLEASE help me...i feel like im going into depression because of all this!!!!!!!!

eminemworshipper · 04-28-2003, 10:28 AM

Hey Mlissa..

I am sorry that u were feeling crap that day. We all ..and I mean everyone here..when I say that we all get a load of days where we see ourselves as that and we want to be better. And I know I am hypocritical when I say this..but when u strive to meet your goals...you still aren't satisfied and push those goals further. That is when u end up in a dangerous sitatuation. This diet thing isn't a 'have to'..it is your choice..and..honestly..If u r wanting to lose weight.. a dietician or someone can help u plan an eating plan and help u lose weight..that is if it is necessary!

Love
Carolinex

Milissa2005 · 04-28-2003, 02:49 PM

yeah i dont think my doctor would help me with that cuz i really dont need to lose weight....i am 5'3 and 120 pounds..but to me thats alot...my mom weighs less than i do! i jus want my stomach to be flatter...i always suck in all the time...i wish my stomach was flat so i wouldnt have to suck it.....
thanx for your help

milissa

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Milissa Osburn

Land Lord · 05-02-2003, 04:00 PM

start doing crunches, or something to strengthen the muscles in your stomach and obliques. Then you wont have to suck it in. It will stay there.

youneeak · 05-04-2003, 08:10 AM

Hi Milissa!

First of all, please remember that you are not as fat as you think you are! Mirrors lie...Our minds play tricks on us.

And we are all beautiful in our own ways...in our own bodies. Try not to compare yourself to your mom, because at your height and weight, you're perfect...even a lil' low. I'm sure you're beautiful. Please becareful, and remember that I'm here if you need anything.

NEVER GIVE UP
~sarah~