Hi from me too.
You have been through quite a lot of emotional trauma recently and therefore you are justified to feel a little "disordered"!! However, all this is having underlying causes which have to do with how you perceive yourself and whether deep down you like yourself.
Usually a low self estee
m is the root cause of this. Hence if you try to build up your self- esteem, the need to binge and throw up will ease and lose its control on you.
Psychotherapy is one other option, because it will help you address the root of the problem and teach you howto deal with it.
I have also been suffering from bulimia my entire life but it is only through regular exercise and eating healthily that I have managed to control my weight and stop being controlled by it. Through psychotherapy I have recognized the primary cause ( low-self esteem) and I have come to accept the fact that I will always have to be careful around food.
Like you I have suffered from red blotches, caused by broken little veins on the face, problems with my stomach etc so this road is not a good one, and one would be wise to deal with the problem once and for all.
Take care of yourself please. I am sure there are people who care about you and think you are truly wonderful.