The other day at work, i was wearing heels and a dress (i work in an office) and one of the ladies i work with commented on how nice I looked and how much 'slimmer' i looked.
So joking around i said back to her 'Ohh thanks, what do i look like all other times then?'
And she said - ' Well when you wear leggings and flats you look a bit more.. you know.. frumpier.'
I literally burst out crying.
Has anyone else reacted like this during recovary?
Its really hard to get used to your body yourself, let alone outsiders commenting on it.
Now this comment wont stop circling around in my head and i feel like im moving slower and slower. With my mental side of things.
Im not mad at her because she wasnt to know, and she said sorry and said i look beautiful all of the time.
But it doesnt help the way i feel about it all.
Now i go to work in heels and dresses all of the time!!
anyone else relate?