I'm not sure what an epilepsy cry is, so I can't help you there. Yes some people do turn blue. For me, for some reason, my hands go ice cold and turn blue. And yes on the other issue you brought up. When my seizures are strong I lose bladder control, but I do not lose it everytime. I have been lucky and have never lossed my bowel, not to say that won't happen (I'm knocking on wood if you thought you heard something
Well I hoped this helped a little, have a good one!