Hi Mom,
My name is Lisa and I have 2 seizure kids. Jenny 15 and Jake 2.
Let me start by sharing a couple of things with you.

You have every right to be scared. I thought Jake was dying in my arms during his first seizure. And it may take you months and tons of seizures to get past that fear (although I hope you never see another one!)

You are doing the right thing by seeking answers from someone other then the Drs. They are not Gods! They do not have all the answers - don't trust one that pretends that she/he does...
DO NOT waist time and energy blaming yourself, your child's father, grandparents, God - Whoever!

Realize that the Drs may or may not be able to provide you with the answer to "Why?" your son seized. And as strange as it sounds you and your son are actually better off if this is the case. The medical term for this is "Idiopathic - A disease without a know cause" and this is better then finding out about a syndrom of some sort.

Keep a journal. Details, details, details... at first any new foods (try and think if he had anything new in the days prior to his seizure, changes in sleep cycles, BMs, fevers. If he seizes again note the following: was his eyes directed in a certain way (Jake's are always up and to the right), any body movement (jerks, twitches, rapid blinking etc), how long did it last - COUNT while it's going on all he will hear and register is mommy talking to him - I always count out loud so Jake hears my voice. Write all your questions in the journal as well - you'll be taking it to the Dr. This record could be your saving grace if you find a pattern but the only way to find a pattern is to keep a journal.

If the neuro tries to put him on
Dilantin DON"T allow it! There are other drugs that are less hard on children. Jake went toxic 3 times on that stupid drug, lowered liver counts, lowered white blood cell counts and just alround DRUGGED! We lost close to a year of development on it.
Oh Gosh Mom, my boss is looking for me. I'll have to finish in a bit...
Love and light -
Know you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Jennifer - Girl good to see your still here! Thanks for talking to the newest member of the "E" Mommas Club!
Light
Lisa and kids