Hey Elaine,

Girl rant away... it's what gets us Momma's through this somedays. Tomorrow it may be me!
I have 2 E kids, Jenny 15 (mentioned above) and Jake 2.
We were treating Jenny for ADD well before we even thought about Jake... In March 00 her peditrician (sp) asked her how she was doing on the Concerta. And Jenny tells her this wild story about "Going Away". The ped sent her out and said that she had just discribed a text book example of an Absent Seizure! Blow me away... did testing - EEG *normal* MRI *normal* Bloodwork *normal* so we leave it alone and continue treating ADD.
Along comes baby Jake - and his rockem' sockem' Grand Mals (started at 10 mths)... Is there a family history they ask... Well not really, only a hunch and normal tests with Jenna. We left her meds be - based on the normal test. She had a REAL seizure while Jake was in the hospital last May. IT was witnessed by a whole group of kids in the lunch line at school...
Back she goes for more testing. ALL of it normal! She decided to wait until she returned from her Dads before starting meds. What a difference!
You are right to contact another Dr. Jake's neuro was the first one to suggest it. He wanted a second oppion himself when he got so bad... That's a smart move. Jake's neuro's trade off visits and copy each other in files. Just a second set of eyes!
There are many people on the board who have normal EEGs and MRIs who have all sorts of seizures, including activity that looks so much like ADD - it's scary.
Trust me I can so relate to what you are saying about taking him off the meds. I want both my guys off SSSOOO bad. But, please be careful and take him down very - very - very slowly if you do it without a Dr, and know that he could have the Grand Mals again, even without the fever.
As a side note: Jake sees a SP as well. He lost all his words during a huge round of activity during the summer. He has also been diagnosed with Sensory Intergration Dysfunction. This more then anything makes if hard for him to sit still and attend. You might want to ask your SP if she knows anything about it. If not maybe look into having an OT specially trained in the area to evaluate him. Just a thought!
Love and light
Lisa and kids