Hey Dalesgirl,
It's great that you have found this message board, and I am very glad that you saw my thread regarding sleep seizures. Glad it can be of help to people.
Yes, I do only get seizures while I am sleeping, and my neurologist has agreed/confirmed with this. My doctor has also given me the okay to go and get my license and is confident that I won't get a seizure while driving, due to my long history (about 8 years) of only having seizures while sleeping. It is quite possible for people with epilepsy to only have seizures while sleeping, and it is not uncommon.
My seizures seem to be mostly triggered by lack of sleep. Do you find this is like your husband as well?
I too wet the bed when I have a seizure, and I don't remember it at all! I"ll just wake up with the bed wet, and I am slightly sleepy. If I have a Grand mal seizure I thrash around and sometimes fall out of bed, though i never remember it at all either. I"ll wake up a couple of hours later...then I'm notified by a family member that I had a grand mal. (if they happened to have heard me). If no family member has heard or scene me, and I wake up with a terrible headache, feel dizzy/nauseated, and very tired, then I usually suspect that I have had a seizure (most likely grand mal). These are usually my symptoms after having one.
I have found a very helpful article on www.e-epilepsy.org.uk Go to that website and enter "sleep" in the search. Then chose the artcile "Epilepsy and sleep by: M C Walker, S M Sisodiya Institute of Neurology. This article gives detailed information about how sleep patterns can affect the brain. It is very interesting.
Any other questions at all? That is too bad that the doctors have dismissed this....how silly! I suggest requesting and sleep deprived EEG. Do you think that would be possible? This is how we determined that I was getting seizures. My brain waves were measured while I lay on a table....I remember just lying on the table and the nurse saying. "okay, close your eyes"...then later "Alright, time to get up now". My mom who was in the room commented "you just had a seizure". And wow!! I didn't even realize...it just felt like I had been resting for 30 min or so. But sure enough, my brain waves were ALL ACROSS the pages during my seizure activity.
I hope this was helpful...tell me what you think about the article too..
Wishing you and your husband well