I would like to give all of you a little advice and a long story...
When my son, Dax, was 1 wk old, I woke up in the middle of the night to find him seizing and not breathing. In between seizures, he would fall into unconciousness. My husband and I rushed him to the hospital. They had to place him on a respirator and were unable to wake him up. The hospital was not set up for this small of a child, so they wanted to move him to the children's hospital. This was during a snowstorm and they were unable to lifeflight him to the childrens hospital, so they hand pumped him while we waited for the ambulance to arrive (longest hour of my life).
While he was in the NICU, they ran every test imaginable, including several EEGs, all negative. A week later, they placed him on phenobarbital and released him from the hospital.
18 months later they took him off the phenobarbital after another round of tests and declared him healty. I was told that they didn't know why this had happened, sometimes they just don't know.
We were thrilled that he was fine and moved on with our lives. Once Dax started school though, it was obvious that everything was not fine.
He was not acquiring any reading skills. In California, they do not hold children back and when I requested testing for learning disabilities I was told that if he still couldn't read by 8th grade, they would look into it. Meanwhile, Dax was miserable. He was being made fun of by all the kids and his teacher told him "Some people are just too stupid to learn to read." Dax would cry and beg me every morning not to leave him at school. It broke my heart.
So we moved! We went home to our family in Ohio and sought help for Dax while we looked for work. In Ohio, he was tested and found to have a reading learning disability.
Here in West Virginia, I mentioned him to my neurologist. The neuro requested to see him, so I got him all of Dax' medical records. After some testing, the neuro said that he believed Dax' brain was not developing as it should due to the infection he had as an infant. I said, "What infection?". Neuro, "the one that caused the seizures." But I was told nothing about that. They told me they just didn't know, and released him.
So now, Dax (who is now 9 yrs old) is in a special reading class, is scheduled for an MRI and neuropsych testing and is being closely monitored by a specialist through the school.
We finally have hope of helping him! And he loves school now and is excited to get on the bus every morning!
To sum up, my advice is this...ASK QUESTIONS. DON'T LET ANYONE FOB OFF HALF ANSWERS ON YOU AND KEEP SEARCHING FOR WHATEVER IT IS YOU NEED!! My ingnorance cost my son precious self-esteem and that has taken time to build back up. |