Hey,
soccerschmee, I was just doing some research on Epilepsy, and I came across something called "Secondarily Generalized Seizure", which sounds like my Gran Mal seiuzure that I remember a lot of.
It said it starts out as a simple or complex partial seizure, and then becomes more violent and generalized, and can lead to a grand mal. I think this is what happened to me because I was conscious while it progressively got worse until my whole body contracted into a ball and I couldn't breathe, and then I lost consciousness and had a grand mal (I had bitten my tongue, so I know it continued after I passed out).
So, I didn't know if you knew about these types of seizures, and maybe you're having Secondarily Generalized Seizures rather than full-on grand mals, which would explain for both of us being conscious through most or all of it!