Thank you so much for your reply.
As far as this being cyclic, we have not found any patterns. Some episodes last a few hours, some a few days. Between episodes can be a few days, or several months. His most recent crossing was a few days ago, and the time before that was 7 months ago. As of now the episodes are happening farther apart. I know that can (and probably will) change.
Acquired eso was one almost diagnosis, but was dismissed because they can't find any cause. ie: any syndrome, damage, etc. He did in fact aquire eso, but why, and why it comes and goes is the problem. It is intermittent, but not cyclic. Sudden, but not acute. Hurry up and wait

So far, no PO has wanted to do surgery, and I agree (at this time). I've tried to contact several PO's out of our area, to see if they have ever seen this, or anything similar. So far, the only response I've recieved is that they would have to examine him to form an opinion. Very frustrating as I am not able to travel thousands of miles for an office visit and exam....If I could find someone who has seen this, or even heard of this I would be willing to go anywhere. We are trying to exhaust all of our resources in our immediate area (a few hundred miles). I will contact John Hopkins, and Dr. Guyton. Hopefully they will be willing to help, or at least point us in the right direction.
Mentioning sinus problems did set off a light for me, as my son does have allergies, and is very nasaly, and "drippy" most of the time. I have told all POs this but none have said that this could be related. This I will pursue also.
My son has not been diagnosed with any phoria ( has not been diagnosed with ANYTHING, that's the problem!!!!

) All Dr.'s have had ideas, but with further testing become dumbfounded. His vision is near perfect in each eye (whether crossed or not) MRI was normal, no pattern or common circumstance. He doesn't fit for Duanes syn. any nerve palsy, Arnold Chiari I, nothing I or the PO's can find. It's like he's a little of this, some of that, a pinch of something else, but not enough to be this, or too much to be that.
We will be going to Childrens Mercy next week, and will push for retesting of everything, including MRI. I believe a lot can change over a few years, and will put my mind at ease as far as any neuro. problems that may exist. (After many late nights doing internet research, you read so many terrible things that MAY be the cause, your mind can get carried away!)
Thank you again for your reply. Any information could be helpful.