omg my daughter is pregnant/on sub.prgram
Hey again all,
I am sure in last few days most have read my post, ive been in somewhat crisis and am standing my ground with giving myself a break from my daughter. she threw heck of a tantrum over week ago and we havent talked since. She moved in with my son. She has 7 year old daughter that she has barely raised i have did most of that along with my daughter in law. my daughter is on suboxune program / 3 per day. she has not been on any birth control for 7 years and has just never gotten pregnant, she told me she couldnt well she was wrong. my daughter in law said that my daughter just found out she is pregnant. I am in shock. I am glad that right now i am not communicating in her life and i think that maybe why she struck out at me because she knew she got herself in another mess. The guy wants an abortion and from what we as her family has been through and her daughter i think that would be the best or adoption. she is never been able to be a mother to the beautiful daughter she has now. she sure doesnt need another one to raise and i have made my mind up i will not raise another child of her. dont get me wrong my little ruthie is a pure joy but there has to come a time when i am not raising children. i want some time in my life when i am not repsonsible for her and her children. plus she has been on sub for 2 months, she is not telling that dr or has she told her counselor. which i think is wrong because she is telling m y daughter in law she wants to keep it. I dont think she is thinking into her future at all. who knows what the sub or trazadone could have done to fetus.
Boy i tell you i think i could write a book, it just is unreal. she has only been in recover 3 months and i think that should be her main focus .
But i am resisting any urges to call her and get involved shes 25 this will be her problem and im tired of picking up the pieces.
i do want to thank everyone on here , without your encouragement i probably would have caved by now but you have given me strength, i havent had that for myself for along time.
does anyone know if sub can be taken during pregnancy? and wont she go into withdrawls if she comes off of it?
I am worried about her mental health because i know she is gona be going nuts in her mind but my son and daughter in law are trying to help her and guide her. and i am grateful because they knew i needed a break.
thanks for letting me vent again.