Re: I'm so tired. (Husband addicted to Xanax)
Wow you are in a very bad spot. Is there any way to force him into treatment, maybe because he beat you up? He should have relised he needed help after he did that, and if he didn't well....you need to be very careful or he could kill you next time. I hate to say it but there are battered womens shelters, and maybe if you take the kids and leave he will relise he is distroying his familly. Like you said yourself you can't help someone if they don't want it. I can't begin to know how hard it will be for you, but if you have tried everything else..... Please get help, it might be time to force him to see how bad he is doing. Adicts don't like to here it but deep down he knows he needs help. If he loves his kids than leaving with them might be his rock bottom.
If you stay please be careful, protect yourself and your kids. I wish you well. I hope you will find help. Carrara