Re: my father-in-law
I remember well that feeling of f-o-g-g-y unreality. Like I was looking through a thick sheet of clear glass at the rest of the world.
You and your family just keep hanging in there. Some people do better with less information and more prayers, others do better with just the prayers. There is ALWAYS room to hope in situations like this.
I don't think you're ever prepared for a diganosis like this. How can one be? My Dad had YEARLY colonoscopys and still, there it was. We were walking around like complete zombies - and then I discovered that I was the "information and prayer" type. I researched in order to be ready for anything that came at me, my brother & sisters just fielded information as it came to them.
I'm adding you and your family to my prayers, I hope you know you're not alone in this and will come here anytime you need to vent - I added quite a bit of rambling, ranting, & writing here myself not so long ago!
Last edited by Ruth6:11; 04-29-2004 at 06:04 PM.
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