Re: New here/New to Cancer
No it isn't fair. I am sorry you are going through this. Spend the time with your mom and leave nothing unsaid. The hearing is the last to go, so if she seems unconscious, she still hears you.
My best friend didn't want to eat toward the end, but she did eat a little watermelon. We just wanted her to be comfortable. With her permission, we gathered 4 of our long terms friends and we got together at her house. She didn't want a funeral but we asked if we could have people over for coffee. She laughed and said it was ok. We took pictures of us, and now 4 years later I cherish them.The night of her passing, it was hard to tell her it was ok to go, and she would be free of pain. It's going to be hell for you but she will still be around you. I truly believe that. hugs