thanks im glad u did respond
i can definitely see cycling, maybe not as extreme as u mentioned, but he'll be fine then snap for no reason and not too long after its like nothing happened.
i figured there wasnt any one answer to how to deal with it. then the fact that my b/f doesnt know that i know about this doesnt help and i really dont know how id bring it up. i had suspicions and awhile back asked him if he was, he thought i was joking and laughed at me...then i heard from a mutual friend that my b/f admitted he was to a couple of close friends...then finding the medication kind of confirms it...what else would depakote (think thats how its spelled) be used for?
i wish he would talk to me about it and stuff but he'd probably be afraid to bring it up...our relationship has been kinda rocky lately but id still do about anything for him!
well thanks for your help!