crmun

My husband has gone through the gamut of excuses as to why he feels the way he does. Sometimes he seems as if he is accepting of his bipolar, and other times he is the exact opposite. His favorite reason for feeling this way is me. I make him crazy. I say stupid or rude things, or I give him strange looks. There are hidden meanings in the seemingly benign things I say. I asked him once if he took one a bite of the caprese I made for a party. He lost his mind. What kind of person did I think he was that he would eat something made for a party?? I must really think he was a huge loser to take a bite...etc. Sometimes I don't even have to say anything. He gets worked up all on his own, I don't even have to be there. However it is my fault.

Some days it is his mother's fault...sometimes it is his job.

For he last few weeks though he seems to be dealing with it, and he seems to be taking responsibility. I hope to god is lasts.