shari1359

I'm very worried about my 25 YO sister and her behavior. I've noticed bizare/abnormal behavior in the past, but it is getting worse as she gets older.

She started stealing at the age of 8. She has stolen from stores, friends and family.

She babysat once for me years ago and her idea of doing this was locking the kids in their rooms for the day.

She purposefully locked her cat in the basement until it died. She starved her pet turtle to death.

If someone appears to have wronged her in any way, she will go out of her way to be sure this person is "punished". If she is working with someone she doesn't like, even if there is no reason, she will bully them until they quit, She will even stage elaborate schemes to get them fired.

She makes "hate lists". She targets one person, whether it be an acquaintence or someone she works with, and write lists about how awful this person is. Example: There was a coworker at her last job she hated. She made an extensive list of every single time this person was late to work, what things she did wrong during her shift, etc. She typed all of this up when she quit this job and sent it to management.

She has made remarks in the past six months about HATING people in general. She says all people are idiots and know nothing. She has only one friend. She has never had a boyfriend. She says she will never get married and never have children because "they are stupid".

I have tried telling her she needs counseling and perhaps some medication or dietary changes, but she refuses. I don't know what else to do here. My conversations with her and becoming increasingly frightening to me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!