Are ALL Narcissists serial cheaters?
In the first year of my marriage, my husband who was a former drug abuser, called a call girl he was introduced to through a friend to buy cocaine. I found out about the plan to buy the cocaine and was very upset. He has not been officially diagnosed with NPD but is a text book case -- abusive childhood, rage, inferiority, intimacy issues. Sex was never really his vice it was always drugs. As I researched NPD though I came across a lot of information regarding how Ns are serially cheaters and perpetually dishonest. I have had divorce papers written up and need to make a decision in the next couple weeks of whether to file or try one more time. He has, over the past year, improved greatly and is trying very hard to overcome old problems. The diagnosis that NPD cannot be cured makes me feel I should give up now if they're lost causes!