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Old 06-19-2012, 05:57 PM   #1
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Can anyone help me

Sorry to delete the post but I was a fool to stay in this relationship. BPD is destructive and flat out mean to be a part of. What a waste of 3 years of my life.

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Re: Can anyone help me

She sounds like an extreme case of borderline/histrionic personality disorders. You sound like an extreme case of crazy codependency. You are a perfect match. The difference between you is that you have a choice, she probably doesn't. She is wired that way, whereas you could probably be OK with therapy. For Pete's sake, get out now before the brain is totally sucked out of your head. You cannot fix her!! This will be your life forever if you stay. Sera

 
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Old 06-27-2012, 08:05 PM   #3
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Re: Can anyone help me

I have not seen the first part of the thread that you say you deleted... But from what I read - I would agree...

The best thing you could do is set boundaries for yourself. If you don't know exactly what is meant by "boundaries," do look then up - they are extremely important when dealing with people like you have described. The last thing you want to do is enable one another to be in a genuinely, "unhealthy," relationship - that looks healthy in both of your eyes.

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