Re: What can I do about bio mom?
Hi, I have had a similar situation. We have adopted 6 children, 2 who were a sibling group. It is very difficult, we do not allow phone calls with bio mum unless it happens when we are in the same room. This sounds harsh but on occasion she has said things that are inappropriate. They are not allowed access to her on face book, if this rule is broken they are not allowed computer access. It will be easieR to put your rules in place when the adoption is finalised.
I agree with you children can only be influenced by one set of parents it is too confusing to them if bio mother is interfering.
Best of luck,
Last edited by Agenda; 04-11-2012 at 01:52 PM.