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POSTING RULES & Terms of Service:
The website is for patient to patient (not moderator or professional) support.
HealthBoards is to be used in the English language, only.
Some readers need to translate from other languages, so please use whole words, not chat or text message letters, such as U for you, R for are, etc.
Before you post or contact us about an issue/problem, please first carefully read through all of the information in the FAQ and the 'sticky" posts on the boards that you wish to use. Members are responsible to read and follow all rules and instructions on your own.
NOTICE: Any request for board use that is against the rules will be denied.
Off-board contact - NOTE: On the boards, do not request or offer any kind of contact for any reason. This is considered to be advertising.
Private Messaging (PM) is available only for long term users (not Newbies).
If PM is not available, respect that and do not discuss it on the boards.
If the member PM is on, you may PM a member one time and if your PM is accepted by the member, then ask the member's permission before sending him or her any product or service information. Otherwise the member may report your message as spam, and your membership will be terminated.
All rules and instructions apply and are enforced. Upon registering, you agree and commit to be subject to all Rules, Terms, Policies, and Disclaimer, including all administrative and moderator decisions and instructions, which are not up for discussion or debate. If you find that you do not want these terms, you agree to quietly move on to websites more to your preference and not disrupt this community.
Breaking any rule can result in accrued Infraction points that can result in your membership being rendered Inactive, which is the only warning you should expect. (Reading moderator comments does not mean that no points were assigned.) Good posts do not negate bad ones. Any suspension may be appealed, but might not be lifted.
Any kind of disrespectful communication in posts or emails to or about administration or moderators doing their job of enforcing the rules is cause for permanent ban.
If a post seems inappropriate click "Report Post". Do not post defensively or reactively to abusive or problem posts, thereby creating more work for moderators to remove inappropriate posts. Do not report posts just because you disagree with the opinion.
If you can't find an answer in the FAQ to your board use question, post it only on the Registration/Membership Board or email adminmod@healthboards.com Do not post about editing/bans/deletions/moderator decisions on any other board. Email all username and email address concerns to the email address above.
Do not assume authority over other members in any way or tell them if, what or where to post. Only moderators are to provide instructions and make board use decisions.
Posts become the property of this website to be edited, moved or deleted as deemed to best serve the community. Please use the closest appropriate board topic. Save a copy of your own words that you wish to keep.
The message boards are to be used anonymously with a username that does not identify you to readers.
All Posts are picked up by search engines.
Usernames that are not within the rules or are deemed to be inappropriate may be edited, deleted, or suspended. Make sure to read the "How to" in the FAQ for username info.
Each health topic is for the people WITH the illness. Specific boards are available for those who deal with people with illness/problems.
On any board the patient's opinions and sharing MUST be respected. The health boards are not a place for those WITHOUT the disease or problem to vent about dealing with those WITH the disease or problem. This applies to all boards.
NO ADVERTISING:
Whether or not you personally benefit, posts, usernames, signatures and/or info in your profile that name, promote or advertise free or commercial services, websites or products are considered to be advertising.
As long as you are not suspended, any vBulletin feature that you cannot access is a feature that is not used on this website.
One registration is allowed per person. Only the registered person may use the registration. The member is responsible for any misuse of his/her membership. Be aware that a suspension will affect everyone using the same computer.
The "Search" feature may be periodically turned off when the server is busy. If so, please try it at another time. We apologize for any inconvenience or confusion.
Please carefully read these additional guidelines for participating on healthboards.com message boards:
Reach Out Before You Feel Alone (or If You Are Suicidal)
With HealthBoards.com, you never have to feel alone. Get connected and reach out for others' understanding and support. If loneliness has already set in ... reach out and help someone else ... or reach out and ask for help.
If you have thoughts of suicide, DO NOT POST THEM ON THE BOARDS, immediately call 911 if in America, or call a hospital, or call local police for emergency help.
Please feel free to talk about your depression, and let members here
encourage you or help you with solutions to problems. But, the boards are
NOT an appropriate place for posting that you want to die or threats to
commit suicide, hurt others, or to hurt yourself. Such posts will be removed. They are inappropriate here.
If you are suicidal, contact a professional suicide counselor immediately. Please don't try to go it alone.
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Use Good Personal Judgment
Members and Moderators are not healthcare professionals.
First and foremost, NEVER rely on information or opinions to replace
necessary, personal consultation(s) with qualified health or medical
professionals. This forum is for support, empowerment, sharing opinions and entertainment. Healthboards.com is not a professional advice forum, and no one should use it as such.
Also, remember that what's right or has worked for one person may not be what's right for you. Your personal set of circumstances will always influence what's best or right for you. Talk with your physician or personal health professional about the benefits, risks and costs of various options and alternatives in order to make an informed, confident personal choice.
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Don't Be Afraid To Post
If you're new to our community, taking the step for the first time to post publicly to a message board can sometimes seem intimidating. Don't be afraid to jump into a discussion. We have a very supportive community that serves up heavy doses of encouragement and enthusiasm. While we hope that you'll become an active participant and join in our discussions, you're welcome, of course, to simply hang out silently until you feel more comfortable posting a message.
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Respect Privacy, Be Safe, and Keep Personal Information Private
Respect others' privacy when they are Inactive. When or if they want to return is soon enough to reconnect.
Do not post real names in posts.
If you are under age 17, do not post your age.
You may post that you are a teen, but do not post your age.
Use the Teen Health Boards, and if age 16-19, you may use Sexual Health-Teen.
Please be safe: keep personal information private and remind your children to do so, too. Posting the ages and names of children is not safe, so please do not do it. When a reader sees your names and location, it is not hard at all to discover where you live from information that you posted and your local public records. Remember that posts are picked up by search engines and may circulate on the World Wide Internet for years to be read by anyone in the world. [to top]
How to Share Information
Stay on the board health topic, and share your own experiences that are pertinent to the board health issues.
Do not post college or school projects, research studies, surveys, polls.
Do not suggest internet searches or post anything about freebies, forums, chatrooms, message boards, websites, webpages, blogs or any kind of commercial business or internet contact, whether or not you personally benefit:
A product or service may be named and opinion shared one time, on one board. Multiple similar messages will be deemed to be advertising. IF your post appears like an advertisement it will be treated like one.
If a website sells books, products, or services, then it is deemed to be a commercial website. This includes doctor websites.
Naming a book title and author, or a doctor's name w/city/state is allowed as long as no website or contact information is posted.
Do not post songs, poems, stories, articles, etc, whether your own or someone else's.
Do not post links to pictures or images.
Do not copy and paste anything from other websites. Respect copyright law.
All US .gov websites are allowed.
NOT all .edu sites may be posted.
Websites with forums/message boards/chats are not allowed.
If you are unsure whether a website is allowed, before you post it first email your username and the URL of the website to the Administrator for possible pre-approval.
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Have fun, Get Serious, Be Yourself
Be yourself! As long as it is within the terms of use, there are no other rules about how best to get in touch with yourself and others. Share your joys and laughter, tears and fears. This is the key to connecting with others who understand it is OK to just be yourself.
If you're feeling alone or hurting, don't be afraid to share. If you're rejoicing about the results of a recent medical test or treatment, share that too. If something funny happened to you today that can help lighten others' hearts, we want to hear about it so that we can laugh too. Sharing who you are is considered healthy medicine in HealthBoards.com.
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Agree to Disagree
Do not attack others. This is not the place to post slanderous or hateful statements about anyone. Negative communications, especially those aimed at sexual orientation, gender, race, color, religious beliefs, national origin, or DISABILITY -- are not permitted.
BEFORE you post a message that is intended to embarrass, humiliate or harass a person or group of people, stop and THINK first! Harassing communications are deemed to be any words that may cause distress, embarrassment, unwanted attention or other discomfort.
What is good for you may not be the answer for another. SUPPORT OTHERS in their health decisions for themselves. Providing your opinion should not result in disparaging remarks or religious discussions, or one-upsmanship over who has the most education. NO one is an expert on what is appropriate for someone else. Both medical and alternative solution opinions belong on the boards. Even if you disagree with an idea, it still may be the solution for another. Decisions about health and well-being are highly personal, individual choices. If you disagree with a person's post or opinion state your opinion once, then move on without argument.
Likewise, expect to get some opinions you may not find helpful. If so take what you want and ignore the rest. Do not attack members that took time to reply.
When a member asks for support only, please respect the request; do not reply with contradictory comments.
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Do not SHOUT
Let it out, but don't SHOUT at one another. Shouting online (typing in all capital letters) is considered by some to be rude and difficult to read. To others, especially individuals with some types of disabilities, typing in all caps (or in all lower case) is a necessity. (Using the shift key can be a struggle for a lot of folks.) If it is necessary for you to use all caps be sure to inform others so they understand.
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Welcome Newcomers
When newcomers arrive, say "hi" and welcome them onboard the community. Help new folks to become involved.
Post to all readers: do not start cliquey threads. Posts that call to or center around a group of specific members are inappropriate.
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Keep Your Posts Clean
Post messages with references to sexual body parts and sexuality ONLY on a Sexual Health Board.
There may be places where explicit, obscene or vulgar language, graphics or behavior is appropriate: but HealthBoards.com is not one of them. Posts that are deemed to be inappropriate will be removed from any board. Similarly, any posts that solicit or offer explicit or X-rated GIFs, JPEGs or other graphic files will be deleted. Usernames with sexual implication/content will be banned.
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Do Not Post Copyrighted Information
Information copyrighted or owned by any individual or entity other than the person posting is not to be posted on healthboards. If such an event occurs, the individual that posted the information shall be held solely responsible. HealthBoards.com shall not be held responsible for posted information that may violate copyright law. Such posts will be removed as soon as possible.
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Avoid Duplicate Posts (Cross-Posting)
Do not post similar or same messages more than once on a message board or on multiple boards. Duplicate messages may be deemed to be advertising. They also can be frustrating for other visitors, especially those whose time and energy are valuable. Remember that many participants in our community are in pain or have a DISABILITY. Weeding through the same message in multiple locations can be not only frustrating, but down right annoying. Duplicate messages will be removed as soon as possible.
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Additionally
This website is private property, and its use is a privilege, not a right. HealthBoards.com reserves the right to prohibit or remove any post (copy any posts you wish to keep). Administration and moderators reserve the right to organize topical boards and posts and/or deny or revoke membership for any reason.
HealthBoards.com reserves the right to prohibit or delete messages that are deemed to violate Federal or local laws or that may be deemed harmful to others. That said, HealthBoards.com does not have the practical ability to restrict conduct or communications that might violate HealthBoards.com guidelines prior to transmission on the Internet, nor can they ensure prompt removal of offending message board posts.
Use of healthboards.com constitutes acceptance of all Terms, Rules,
Policies, Guidelines, Disclaimer, and any administrative/moderator instructions, whether by email or post on the boards.
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