Hi painhurting:
I know how hard it is to live with pain every day.
I was bedridden for 6 months because of CFIDS and fibrlomaylgia. Anti inflammatory medicines help a lot. Than I tried doing Some YOGA, and you cannot believe what a difference. I use to take hot soaks and than did my yoga.
First month was very hard. Now I can do things here and there. I am not bedridden any more. Still I have pains and sometimes they realy get worst. But there is no medicine that can cure it. Only some kind of excercise can help the muscles. Magnesium is very helpful and It keeps you calm too.
Find a doctor who realy understands you. Most of the doctors tell you, it's psycosomatic.
Hope you feel better.