Hi. I've seen quite a few posts with "male" user names. It's not as common for a man to have FM but they ARE out there, and I really feel bad for them, especially if they are what you want to call the "bread winners" in the family.
More and more men are being diagnosed with FM which seemed to be, for a long time, a "womens" conditon. My husband came home from his job offshore and told me that one of the captains he works with just got diagnosed with FM.
Give your question a few days and I'm sure you'll get a lot of replies from the "guys".