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Old 05-25-2005, 02:27 PM   #1
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my latest problem, its never ending

okay so i recieved a letter from my atty office stating that they will no longer be helping me with my disability case, that there is nothing more they can do.
i just wanted to die after reading that. they did say that i could go down to the ss office and ask for an appeals council to look at it. i don't know wether i should find another atty or just do it on my own. after doing alot of searching on the net an came upon a format letter to go by so i can write my letter to them disagreeing with the alj decision. i feel so overwhelmed right now and don't know what to do. i have already written a rough draft of what i would like them to know so maybe i will get it all fixed up and send it on my own.
i did call one atty office and asked it they take casses at this point and they said they charge a $50 reviewing fee.
i do feel that in my heart of hearts that i am doing the right thing by applying. i would not put my family and i through this unless i thought so.
just need a little encouragement.
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Old 05-25-2005, 07:45 PM   #2
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Re: my latest problem, its never ending

I don't know if you have a Center for Independent Living in your area, but one here in Vermont has been very helpful to me.
And I think it's a question of that for you: you want to continue functioning as you can, and if they won't help you, you will need more and more help, home health, etc.
You might try this tack.
The Center for Independent Living may be national, I don't know. I'll try to find it for you if it is, and I'll get back to you.
Keep on hanging in there,

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Old 05-25-2005, 09:41 PM   #3
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Re: my latest problem, its never ending

Hey robin,

I think that your age is the main reason your atty is quitting your case. Hate to say it, my dear sweetie, but that's my opinion. He obviously feels he can't win for some reason, and I'd bet it's because you are so young. I'm not saying by any means I agree with this, I for one, would be the first to fan any SS building if it were on fire! LOL (as long as it were empty of course!) Same goes with some atty's offices! I don't like mine in particular, but hey, I'm only on my second go round. It's hard to find an atty, when all you usually have to go on, is the ads you see on TV or the yellow pages! I saw mine on TV, STILL see him on TV. Now I at least know where he is! LOL

I would still try to find another atty. There are millions out there. Also, check your computer resources. There are many sources of help out there that offer help for SSD cases, specifically FM cases, you just have to look. It's possible you can find an atty who practices nationwide. They are kinda like corporations who can represent you while not actually physically being in your state. Look for them. You have the resource, use it.

Good luck honey. In the mean time, check out Medicaid. It's state aid, but hey, that's what it's there for. Use it if you are able to. It's meant to help those who aren't able to work, can't find work for what ever reason, as far as food stamps, low income housing, and medical care usually for your children. Not sure about how to qualify for medical treatment covered by the state for yourself. They usually don't have a problem qualifying your children though. I worked with young mothers who had their kids on Medicaid. Nothing wrong with getting a little help where you need it.

Also, as far as your meds, a lot of big drug companies have a "needy meds" program where they will allow you free medication in some cases. Check out the Pain Management board, and there is a "sticky" post there that tells you all about the "Needy Meds" program. It's like one of the first two threads on the board I think. Good info there, I had no idea that you could get the meds you need from the very source that creates them. Check it out. Before that govt program gets cut!

Also, what about SOME kind of vocation where you could possibly learn a new job? Something that would be "workable" for you, given your condition? You could certainly qualify for free grants to go to school. I'm not talking 4 years of college here, but a vocational school of some sort. See if you can find something where you could learn a new vocation that may fit your condition. Just a thought.

The Independent Living thing sounds like a good idea also. I just think you have some options here, so don't give up. K?

Keep us posted. I know it's hard, and it seems like an endless fight, and it may take every ounce of energy you have, but we all try. We fail, we get denied, we get disappointed, but we go on, and we find a different road.

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Old 05-26-2005, 02:31 AM   #4
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Re: my latest problem, its never ending

I had the same thing happen. The attorney I consulted said that I was too young and she wouldn't take my case. I bawled my head off in her office. I filed an appeal anyway and amazingly, the reviewing judge approved my claim. The attorney said that because I was so young and college educated, there was no way I could win the case. My advice, I guess, is to file an appeal and if you are rejected again, ask your fibro doctor for a referral or contact your local arthritis foundation office to see if they know of anyone who takes fibro cases. Good luck. Mine took 2 years to come through.

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Re: my latest problem, its never ending

Dear Robin, Read your post, and am in the same boat. My husband of 22 years divirced me,and applied for ss, and got denied,and also have a chronic illness,called ptc, where have toomuch cerebral fluid around my brain, and have a shunt in my back. I know how frustraing all of thisis. Only have 1 month left to appeal, so am going to try and find a ss attorney. Also, starting July 1st. will lose title 19, and then will only have 18 mths. of medical insurance, so have been pretty stressed. Our condition gets worse from stress, so have been tring to give it all to God, and also try to be greatfull for what I do have. Also, am tring to wean off of a high dose of oxyconti,that my family dr. gave me for headaches. That is a challenge in itself! Have just picked up a wonderfull book,called Fibromyalgia,written by Don L.Goldenberg,M.D. Have just started reading it, and so far, it is a gem of a book. The authors wife has fibro, and what she has done to help her condition. My shrink has tried so many antidepressants,but none seem to help, but this book, suggested Elavil(to restore sleep),Flexeril, and possibly Prozac. Am going to see if my dr. will try these meds on me, while I still have insurance. Good luck honey, and know you aren't alone in this,and may God bless you with some answers. Am greatfull to have this board! Take care, and gentle hugs,Susan from Iowa

 
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