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Glojer · 06-04-2005, 09:11 AM

Good morning Blue!

Let me tell you about a visit I had last night while sleeping. I will preface all this with the fact that I know some people don't believe in this type of thing and I am not trying to offend anyone. I know Blue does believe in things like this happening and I have had it happen to me too many times, so I am a believer also.

Blue I had a visit last night (or early this morning) from someone who knows you. This was a young lady with short very dark curly hair, of average build but not real tall. She was wearing a red zip up the front jacket. She was very nice and said she had been sent by her mother to ask me about fibromyalgia. I inquired if her mother had fibro and it seemed as if she did but the most important part of that conversation was that her mother was a friend of bluelakelady and needed information. I wanted to know if she was in your support group. I could never find that out. We discussed fibro and she said her mother would be there soon to pick her up. We were in a house that had curtains over doors that could not be opened. Such as a sliding glass door that had a home addition put behind it and the door was not removed, just had a curtain over it. There were colored blinking lights all around (like maybe christmas lights) and suddenly most of the lights went off. I said I needed to reset the circuit breaker and I would be right back. While I was gone she called goodbye to me that her mother had arrived.

I'm sure the lights going off and all indicates that it was morning and the sun was coming in my windows. Blue is this someone you know? Does the red jacket mean anything to you, because I don't always dream in color but this was vivid.

As I said I know some do not believe in being visited by people that have passed, but it has happened to me too many times. My most recent happened in the summer of 03. My uncle who died many years ago came and sat beside me as I was napping and put his hand on my shoulder and said Nov the 18th. I was very happy to see him and kept asking what will happen Nov 18th. When I awoke I felt since my aunt (his wife) was very ill he meant something about her, I marked the date on the calendar and went on about my life. On Nov. 15th we had a call my mother in law had died and the funeral was nov 18th. Last year in Nov I received a call from the person taking care of my aunt (the same aunt) and he said she had slipped into a coma. I knew she would not leave her body until family arrived to be with her and I also had my uncles prediction of Nov 18th. The call came on Fri. on Mon. my husband and I made the trip to be with her. We spent the day telling her it was OK to go on to be with her husband and family, she had done all she could for her family still here and to just let go. She passed at 1am the next morning and her burial was on the 17th of Nov. because the 18th wasn't available.

There have been several others but I won't bore you with those. I don't think I have any kind of gift, I just think I remember dreams that have some kind of significance to them.

So Bluelakelady who is my mysterious visitor, and why did she and/or her mother need to know about fibro from me when they have such an expert as you to help them? Or does anyone else recognize my description? I sure hope you can help solve this mystery, these things bug me to death!!

Have a happy peaceful day!

Glojer

bluelakelady · 06-04-2005, 01:03 PM

yes i do know them both. the mother is my friend cherrie who died just over 4 years ago. he daughter is in chaos right now. allowing her husband to hit her son, not his child. her mom came and yelled at me the other night. my friend cherrie is purple. her daughter is red. the fibro thing was a connection she knew you would relate to.
she wants me to get thru to her daughter to make the husband go away. i will pass the message on to what is now my daughter. i inherited my daughter jessica from cherrie. and my lovely grandchildren.
do not be in fear when this happens. cherrie would never cause fear. that is why you did not see her come for her daughter. i will tell jessica of your visit from her. jessica is who you saw and she is alive. her chaos cannot affect you. her mother will protect you.
her mom had fibromyalgia. with all that has happened in my life in the past couple of weeks my angel cherrie has been watching and protecting. i am glad she chose you. she is a most genteel spirit. she chose you because you are a window. windows are a good thing. they let in the light and they let the bad smells out.
thank you for knowing you had to come here. now, breath, rest and restore your self.
peace,
bluelakelady
ps jessica is not listening to me about the husband. maybe your visit will be the catalyst for action. i will call her now and read your note to her.

Glojer · 06-04-2005, 03:16 PM

Bluelake, I'm am so glad you recognized the red jacket. When I dream of people I don't always see them in color of course most of them are my relatives and I recognize them. I am never afraid of the people that visit me in my dreams, at least not now that I am a grown-up (that's sometimes a debatable statement, he,he). I do remember being afraid when I was a child. Jessica was very nice and non threatening and I did not sense anything from her mothers impending appearance. You talked about her before, I wish I would have made the connection while seeing her and maybe have been able to help in some way.

I believe there is a connection between her needing help and our communication on the healthboard. Maybe because we are anonymous to one another except for our feelings. You are lucky to have such wonderful people in your life spirit or not. Maybe Jessicas and Cherries worries about your recent upset sent their spirits sailing and I am sure they are worried about how you are getting along.

Thanks for clearing things up. I knew this was not an ordinary dream, which are always disjointed and well, dream like. When I dream of someone with a message they always have order to them like real life and are very short in duration.

Peace and good health!

Glojer
ps. Thank them for visiting me and tell them to come anytime, I know Jessicas problems will not effect me, but maybe an out of body visit will give her some relief.

hangin · 06-04-2005, 03:32 PM

Glojer and BLL,

I just had to share the fact that I have received many visitors throughout my lifetime through my dreams also. I stress that I do not feel that I have any special powers, I just leave myself open. I am always very careful since not all spirits are good, IMO.

one that I will never forget happened when I had my first symtoms of fibro, not knowing I had fibro. This was approximately 11 years ago. It is still so clear. I asked my grandmother whom I never knew to visit me in my dreams. She died at the age of 29 leaving my mother and her 2 sisters orphans. My grandmother's name is Lucretia and the night I called out to here I was extremely depressed and in pain, not knowing why I was hurting and scared. I told her I needed her help and to visit me in my dreams. Why I needed her I cannot say.

About 3 am I was awoken and felt a presence, I don't know if I was asleep or awake. In the doorway was a woman and a young boy, they were dressed in clothes from an earlier time. I had no fear and felt total peace. I heard in my head that I would have an illness for a long time... and it would change my life. I was confused but felt that the spirits were very pure. I don't remember anything after that.

The thing that makes it incredible is that I was on the couch that night since I was having trouble sleeping. My husband was in the bedroom. The next morning he told me that the oddest thing had happened. He was woken up around a little before 3 am by something. He is normally a very sound sleeper. He said at the foot of the bed were a woman and a young boy, of course it sorta freaked him out.. He is more skeptical than I am. He told these spirits to move on, they turned and walked out of the room into the living room where I was. He went back to sleep.

It was absolutely amazing to us both since I had not said a word to him about it. I was also floored that there was a young boy with the woman. My mother's brother had died at the age of 4, 1 month before my grandmother.

I find it inspiring that you two share an incredible bond that goes beyond our comprehension. I think when things like this happen it is our angels, loved ones, guardians, spirit guides, whatever you want to call them, helping us to see that life is not just one dimensional. IMO we take from these experiences what we can and hopefully learn from them.

The fact that you two know each other and this happened makes me think that there are no accidents in life. I believe that sometimes with illness we are more open to things since we pay close attention to what is going on in our bodies and mind. Again, I stress this is my opinion.

Hope I didn't bore or offend anyone, it is just what has happened in my life and I wanted to share this. It is something that I believe I have to pay attention to, especially after reading what Glojer and BLL posted. What a wonderful thing to happen!!!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day.

Peace and love,

Janet

I know this has little if nothing to do with fibro but when I read about this my heart lept. Wonderful things happen around us all the time.

tkgoodspirit · 06-04-2005, 03:52 PM

Hey Glojer!

I read your post and had to reply. I hope Blue doesn't mind me "poking" my nose in this "connection" but I just had to reply.

I got excited when I started reading your thread Glojer, I KNEW immediately what you were talking about. I have had these "second sight" encounters for over 20 years, at least that is as far back as I began to RECOGNIZE what they were. I was freaked out when I first started getting them, but just the past 6 or so years I've learned to receive them with open arms, or should I say open MIND!

I DO dream in color, very vivid color, almost like the old technicolor in the old movies. Where the greens almost blind you they are so bright. I had a dream about my Mom right before she was dx'd with cancer and I never ever dreamed about my Mom before. The most common "dreams" would be about people I knew or worked with, and they didn't even have to be people I was close to, but I'd have a dream with them in it, and the next day, I would find out that someone in their family had died, or had been dx'd with a severe illness. I never told these people I had dreamt of them once I figured out what my "dreams" actually were. I would tell them after they told me about their family member, that I had a dream about them the previous night.

Oh, I could tell you lots of "encounters" I've had, and not only when I was asleep!

The thing is, since my conditions have worsened these past couple years, and my medications have increased, I haven't had too many "second sight" experiences. I believe it's cuz of all the meds I take that alter my CNS and brain function. It's like the "door" in my mind has closed, not entirely closed shut, but like you just leave your door open a crack or half way, or like it's got a screen over it. The screen is the meds. Which saddens me because I had only just recently these past few years allowed my "second sight" to peak, cuz, I had learned to open the door all the way, and not be afraid of something I used to not understand.

I think when I first got my FM and it progressed so much these past couple years, things inside my brain went haywire, short circuited (sp?) and caused a "power outage". I believe that we all have that sensory perception, it's in our minds, every one has it, it's just that not everyone allows that door to open, so to speak. I don't think I'm any more "special" than anyone who doesn't have "second sight", but I think that just as all our personalities are different, so are our abilities to be able to "open" that door in the part of our minds that are super sensitive to "special energy". The force that is breaking through our mind barriers is an energy, IMO, an energy from those who have passed as well as from those who are still here. We all emit energy, a kind of "electrical auroa". That has been proven. And when people pass over to the other side, their energy still exits, it doesn't just disappear. We all have so much energy, even after we cross over, some of that energy is left behind. And, as their souls (souls are "energy") pass over to the other side and wait to be either absorbed by the "light" or they are greeted by "teachers" who remain with this soul and possibly prepare them for their next "mission" on earth, these souls are not far away. I believe "the other side" is merely a "reach" away. I'm not sure if those souls are able to communicate with us just as an everyday occurance, but I know that if that soul hasn't moved on to another body, it will contact us, touch us, and "lead" us when we need them to. Either like you Glojer, to be a "messenger" or to "see" things that will affect someone we are close to, or not close to. This soul will also be our strength when we are most desparate. This is all just my belief. I do not believe when someone dies that all that energy just diappears. I also believe that we have "second chances". Second chances to live another life and use what we learned in our previous lives to reach our "authentic self". Sort of a "be all you can be"!

I believe that I have lived many lives. You know when you encounter that "de javue"? I also dream a lot about water. I have water in a lot of my dreams, and the water always brings emotions of fear and terror, so I wonder if I didn't lose my life by drowning in the past. I also believe that in each life we are more "at peace". This is a gradual process. That is why we are given "second chances". IMO Our grave markers should say "To Be Continued"!

Finally, when we pass on one day, and our soul has achieved "authenticity", we then remain on "the other side". We become part of a special prism of light, yet still keeping our awareness. But we do not return to another earthly life. This is what I believe.

One thing that comforts me most, is that I believe there is someone from the other side who is "assigned" to us. This "soul" or "energy" stays with us throughout our lives. They are our "non-physical teachers". They are here for us, to guide us, help us see what we believe is not there. These "teachers" are waiting for us when we pass over. They are there to assist us on the other side, either preparing us for eternity or preparing us for the next "life", and since there is no "time" on the other side, it could be hundreds of years before we return to earth, or it could be a few months.

I would like to suggest a book to both of you. It's a beautiful book and for me, it made me look at death and the after life a little differently. Some of the book I totally can concieve, other parts I'm not so much in agreement with. But it's a good book. The book is called: WHAT DREAMS MAY COME by Richard Matheson. You may have already heard of it. There was a movie made from the book. I think it had Robin Williams in it. Also, another great book is called: SEAT OF THE SOUL by Gary Zukav.
The book, The Seat of the Soul literally changed my life. It taught me to look at life in a whole different way. It taught me how to be kind to people, it taught me about Karma. It taught about me about my "authentic self". It took me reading it twice before I totally understood what Zukav was teaching. He's a little over my head, but I just took my time reading it, and I would read over parts I didn't quite "get" until I understood them. I read it over a summer when I went to the beach. That was about 6 years ago. Gary Zukav used to be a regular guest on the Oprah Show. He is a philosopher and a teacher of "souls". He believes that the Earth is meant to teach us, and we are here for the single purpose of allowing the "Earth School" to teach us how to live "authenticly". He's kinda like a "guru"! LOL He lives in the mountains, though he doesn't look like "grizzy Adams!"

Anyway, I know I could share "second sight" experiences with both of you that would fill a book. But here isn't the place for sure, I only hope we don't get in hot water here, for getting off topic.

We are, discussing FM. Which, to me, was the cause of me losing a lot of my "senses". Not just "fibro fog"! LOL Somedays I feel my mind slipping away and I hate that. I absolutely hate what FM has done to my mind, my ability to think, reason, remember, and be in control of my thoughts.

So, does this girl (daughter) of yours blue, have FM? Is she in your support group? Her mother was in your support group? I haven't yet been to a support group. I'm afraid it'll just depress me more. There is one not too far from me, and I have the little clipping from our little local newspaper. I keep it in my date book, but I've never inquired. I don't know if I'm too afraid to commit to something like that, or if, like I said, it'll only depress me. I find myself more and more "homebound" by choice. I feel safe at home. I no longer enjoy getting out in public. I know I need to. I DID find an ex-coworker last week. She works as a nurse at the hospital where I was getting a test done. I hadn't seen her in probably 3 years. I worked with her for about 7 or 8 years. Saw her go through a lot of changes in her life. She's about 10 or more years younger than me, and I just love her to pieces. I had someone find her, and she came down to where I was and she looked great. She showed me recent pics of her son, and pics of her new 11 month old! Big round head! LOL It was good to see her. But I feel like I'm tied to my house. I have no desire to venture past my drive way.

Anyhoo, I enjoyed your post Glojer, and your reply Blue. I just had to share with you. See even FM ends up in the "afterlife"!

Love you,
tk