Well me, I'm on a disability pension. I wasn't really given a lot of choice in the matter. I could of course just refuse to accept it (the FM), and lead a life of hell.
When I go into my shop for a bit of woodworking, I do it knowing it will cost me.
That's basically it with FM, ignoring it won't make it go away, and likely it will make it more obvious if you try to pretend it doesn't matter.
In my case I have family present. It sure helps (when they are not wrecking the place hehe).
Your being single is likely your biggest weakness.
A service will be expensive. If you can afford it, that is of course a boon.
Now, it would be nice to just say get a mate, as if you can just get them at the supermarket
But, your life might improve if you at least added another body into your routine. You could always look into a room mate. Someone to help out with the daily needs of the apartment and or home.
It would also allow you a little less stress where income is concerned.
Because you might not realistically be able to go about work full time whether it's necessary or not.