Firstly, may I say that it is most unsual for our fibro family here not to respond to anyone needing help. I am sure now that things will be better in that respect.
Secondly, I cannot comment on Kaiser as I do not know anything about them. The thing I will say is that any doctor who is limiting you to pain medications or refusing help in any way, is so very wrong and not the person you should be consulting for help with your situation as it is.
Please do your best to find another doctor that is willing to listen to you and hear what you are saying. You cannot go on with this amount of pain and you do need an understanding and compassionate doctor on your side. I do so help that this is something you can look into and soon.
Please come back again and let us know how you are going on with this.