I had been with my Rhumie for over 13 years. He did not HEAR me anymore...never took new symptoms (I'm getting on in age now) seriously...just wrote scripts for drugs without looking at me anymore. He DIDN'T TRY to help me any longer. Especially with pain meds. I think you can stay with a doc tooooo long.
I'm now going to see an internist (no rheumie) and getting referred on to the pain clinic at the University here. They are treating pain with METHADONE which I hear is AWESOME.
I'm 27 years down the road with this now, 57 years old, and it has not gotten any better, but only worse. I don't endure the pain like I use to. Now add age problems to it (arthritis, facet joint, yada yada) and you have a very sick lady at only 57. I am in desperate need of pain relief. I have been taking ultram 4 a day for over 10 years. Why wouldn't my old doc think I needed a change. Crazy. Crazy that we who suffer so have to beg for help because a few abuse the market.
Blessings to you and YES, I hope you will move on to a Doc who will help you get some SLEEP. That's nuts........that's usually the FIRST THING THEY DO, and so important.