I sure know what not being believed feels like!
As for mattress, I have a king sized which helps with being able to spread out and toss and turn. I also went from firm so moderately firm and am having less hip problems, the mattress conforms with my curves rather than lying more or less on top of a harder surface with no support or give.
We also put the extra money out for a better quality, I spent hours at several stores, lying on them and checking manufacture. For normal people it isn't a big deal, when you are achy and sore all over, your mattress becomes a MAJOR BIG DEAL!!!
Good luck!
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