Males get this confounded syndrome also. The docs you have seen need to be updated! I don't know of any FMS docs in Wyoming, but below are a couple of docs in northern part of Colorado:
Kendall A. Gerdes, M.D.
Denver, CO. 80202
George J. Juetersonke, D.O.
Colorado Springs, CO 80917
Keep going until you have the right answers. One thing I learned in my quest for answers was that not all doctors are created equal; and they are totally human like the rest of the world's population.
Bye!
Kirstee